Starting off, you need to give yourself a lot of space to reflect and to have a sense of clarity. You have to nurture your body by having the right kind of food, exercise, and rest.
Having a recollection of bad past memories can put a hold on your sense of self. Talk about your fears, and confusion with people who are willing to listen. Let those negative energies out and receive new positive energy by spending time on what you love.
Go easy on yourself. Nobody can be at their best within a few days. Take one day at a time. Uncertainty, grief, and confusions are all normal things at some stage. If you relax into it, everything will fall into place when it’s ready.
Everyone’s timing is different. Stop comparing yourself to the people around you. Spend time in nature and with calm, understanding people to recenter yourself. Accept your thoughts and don’t try to push them away. Address them with what you can do at present rather than thinking about it in the future.
If you’re feeling low on motivation, you can do the below-mentioned steps that will keep you right on track. They include:
1) Rewind and adjust things that really matter to you to reach your goals.
2) If you feel like you’re doing something big or overwhelming, break it down into smaller parts and follow through them step by step.
3) Exercise regularly so that your body produces enough dopamine which has a major role in making you do what you want.
4) Give yourself small rewards when you are being productive. That way you can easily get motivated and do things with a sense of purpose.
5) Make sure to get pauses in between your long work or study session. Take short breaks of 15-20 mins after every hour you work. Use that to relax your body and mind or just take a walk around.
6) If you are insecure about something, try improving things in those areas to make yourself more skilled and capable.
7) Find different ways to reach your goals. Just because an approach worked for someone else does not mean it will work for you. If something is not helping, it’s time to change your approach or methods to reach your goals.